My Son & College
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I think I have convinced my son to skip college. Before you berate me as a bad father hear me out. He is a junior in High School. Next year he is taking the vo-tech program's programming courses for a year. If he likes it he is going to skip college and work with an organization called Launch code (www.launchcode.org) which will train him in programming land him an apprenticeship and then help him find a job, most apprenticeships turn into full time jobs. I told him he could skip all the college debt and still have in demand skills to get a good job.
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Sounds like a plan, which most people don't even have.
Does he have a vocation for programming?
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@dustinb3403 well he is interested in it. That is why he will take coding next year at the vo-tech his senior year of high school. To see if he really wants to do it.
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@penguinwrangler said in My Son & College:
@dustinb3403 well he is interested in it. That is why he will take coding next year at the vo-tech his senior year of high school. To see if he really wants to do it.
Honestly, my biggest concerns here are 1) that he's already so old (most programmers that we find were passionate in it by middle school) and 2) he's waiting till the school teaches it to him to find out if he is interested.
If he was interested, ideally he'd be all over it and teaching himself right now. Skipping college is great, but we normally assume you'll start the skipping process by about age 14. And not use high school as a replacement for college, but self teaching.
I'm all for skipping college. But it's critical to make sure that the alternative to skipping college is a solid plan. That's where college shines, if you aren't sure what else to do, it keeps you doing "something."
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@penguinwrangler said in My Son & College:
If he likes it he is going to skip college and work with an organization called Launch code (www.launchcode.org) ....
This bit is a HUGE red flag...
That means that 20% of LaunchCoders went to university for the wrong degree. This suggests that nearly 100% of LaunchCoders have a degree. They are very careful to limit that already bad percentage rate to the worst possible degree for programmers (@pchiodo and I were just discussing how bad the CS degrees are three hours ago!) So this is marketing, in the very worst way.
So there is likely just about nothing known about the success rate of LaunchCode for those without degrees, if such an insanely high percentage of their "students" have the wrong degrees and nothing more is known.
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@penguinwrangler said in My Son & College:
@dustinb3403 well he is interested in it. That is why he will take coding next year at the vo-tech his senior year of high school. To see if he really wants to do it.
Why is he not doing it right now, to find that out, before spending his senior year in classes figuring it out? Classes are a terrible place to get exposed to career or job options. Programming in a class is nothing like the real world. And if it is anything like high school programming classes I've seen recently, you've got a very high chance that they won't teach programming at all. My niece just did this and her "C# programming class" never wrote a line of code. I'm pretty sure she got an A in a class and doesn't even know what programming is having taken it!
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@penguinwrangler said in My Son & College:
I told him he could skip all the college debt and still have in demand skills to get a good job.
This is certainly true and there are no end of examples of people who have done this. But it's not magic. He needs to be driven, he needs to be able to teach himself, he needs to be able to build a portfolio, and he needs to get moving. His competition have been programming for years already by his age, and many are already employed. Programming is a field that doesn't wait for graduation to start hiring.
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This programming program will also teach him about philosophy, history, literature, math and science? He will be able to talk with his peers openly at any hour of the day?
Also, your 17 year old will probably change his mind next week. And then again the week after that. And again this afternoon. -
@momurda said in My Son & College:
Also, your 17 year old will probably change his mind next week. And then again the week after that. And again this afternoon.
I've never seen someone who wanted to program do that. This is something people say to me all the time, but never have I seen it be true about someone who wanted to be a developer for real. I get it tons from people who didn't want to do anything and just went to school for CS because a teacher told them to, but those people never stay with development, no passion.
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@momurda said in My Son & College:
This programming program will also teach him about philosophy, history, literature, math and science? He will be able to talk with his peers openly at any hour of the day?
Those are all things you should know coming out of high school anyway, and should be teaching yourself as a normal part of being an adult. None of those things require your teachers to teach you. Like everything else in education, college might be fine for that, but if college is the only path to that, you aren't going to get anything out of it anyway.
How many college grads can talk philosophy, history, literature, math, and science? Very, VERY few. I know a lot of people with graduate degrees that would be downright offended if you told them they were expected to have any knowledge of any of that stuff. Literally offended. People whose title is doctor.
Yet I know loads and loads of people who never went to college and talk all that, in depth, anytime day or night.
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@scottalanmiller said in My Son & College:
@penguinwrangler said in My Son & College:
@dustinb3403 well he is interested in it. That is why he will take coding next year at the vo-tech his senior year of high school. To see if he really wants to do it.
Why is he not doing it right now, to find that out, before spending his senior year in classes figuring it out? Classes are a terrible place to get exposed to career or job options. Programming in a class is nothing like the real world. And if it is anything like high school programming classes I've seen recently, you've got a very high chance that they won't teach programming at all. My niece just did this and her "C# programming class" never wrote a line of code. I'm pretty sure she got an A in a class and doesn't even know what programming is having taken it!
He isn't doing it right now because he lives with his mom, who doesn't have internet access. Making it a bit harder to access the online material to learn.
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@momurda said in My Son & College:
Also, your 17 year old will probably change his mind next week. And then again the week after that. And again this afternoon.
This is a bunch of shit.
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@penguinwrangler said in My Son & College:
He isn't doing it right now because he lives with his mom, who doesn't have internet access. Making it a bit harder to access the online material to learn.
Wow, that's going to make for rather a challenge. However, all of us around my age learned to program without the Internet, so it is definitely possible.
Assuming someone starting from literally nothing at all, you can get any of numerous books online on Python, Ruby, C, C++, Java, etc., for free. Download those to whatever device is handy, or just print them out! Get a Raspberry Pi or similar that can hook to a TV. $35 for the base unit, you need extremely little for programming.
Ideal? Maybe not. But way better than learning to program with a single BASIC interpreter and the only book I had for a command reference guide on a 13" CRT and everything saved to floppy. Programming is decently accessible, even when offline.
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@scottalanmiller said in My Son & College:
@penguinwrangler said in My Son & College:
@dustinb3403 well he is interested in it. That is why he will take coding next year at the vo-tech his senior year of high school. To see if he really wants to do it.
(most programmers that we find were passionate in it by middle school) and 2)
Who is this mystical we? It is You. Maybe some people you also know. It is not a majority of anyone.
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@jaredbusch said in My Son & College:
@momurda said in My Son & College:
Also, your 17 year old will probably change his mind next week. And then again the week after that. And again this afternoon.
This is a bunch of shit.
I agree. Some 17 year old has done that, but treating all teens as if they are fickle and have no clue about their futures is weird. By that age, anyone that is still flitting about with their careers is at a big disadvantage, whether your plan is to manage fast food, to be a programmer, to write novels, etc. Can you change your mind after that point? Of course. But if you do, you are accepting that you are giving up the time to get ready for your career that loads of other people have.
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@jaredbusch said in My Son & College:
@scottalanmiller said in My Son & College:
@penguinwrangler said in My Son & College:
@dustinb3403 well he is interested in it. That is why he will take coding next year at the vo-tech his senior year of high school. To see if he really wants to do it.
(most programmers that we find were passionate in it by middle school) and 2)
Who is this mystical we? It is You. Maybe some people you also know. It is not a majority of anyone.
Of people who really become working programmers, I've almost never met any that started later. Some try that, but leave the field. Just people looking for jobs, typically, not people passionate about it.
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@scottalanmiller said in My Son & College:
I'm all for skipping college. But it's critical to make sure that the alternative to skipping college is a solid plan. That's where college shines, if you aren't sure what else to do, it keeps you doing "something."
This is very true, and it is the reason that many people need to do it. Because they have no idea what they want to do.
The majority of people are not exceptional, or above average. That is simply not possible. That is why they are the majority.
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@jaredbusch said in My Son & College:
@scottalanmiller said in My Son & College:
I'm all for skipping college. But it's critical to make sure that the alternative to skipping college is a solid plan. That's where college shines, if you aren't sure what else to do, it keeps you doing "something."
This is very true, and it is the reason that many people need to do it. Because they have no idea what they want to do.
The majority of people are not exceptional, or above average. That is simply not possible. That is why they are the majority.
Correct. College is today (not traditionally, but the modern version of it) excellent for "at and moderately below average" students that have no drive, no direction, or no knowledge of what to do (plus those that want government regulated fields where college is a requirement, rather than an education.) College is all about taking the big "area under the bell curve" middle of the field and giving them direction. It used to be for the elite, unique access to information and resources that you didn't have elsewhere. Today it is the opposite, it's the generic place to put students who weren't motivated or talented or given access to things early enough and keep them out of the job pool until as late as necessary. It's highly effective for what it is actually being used for, and it makes the field even better for motivated students who learn on their own.
The whole "teach yourself and get ahead" process only works so incredibly well because only the very top, most motivated learners bother to do it, and because college isn't bothering to offer anything unique or advanced.
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@jaredbusch said in My Son & College:
@momurda said in My Son & College:
Also, your 17 year old will probably change his mind next week. And then again the week after that. And again this afternoon.
This is a bunch of shit.
No it isnt. I added a conditional probably at the beginning. The vast majority of people at 17 are clueless about what they want for their future, except for some nebulous 'to get a job' type goal that their parents have foisted on them.
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@momurda said in My Son & College:
@jaredbusch said in My Son & College:
@momurda said in My Son & College:
Also, your 17 year old will probably change his mind next week. And then again the week after that. And again this afternoon.
This is a bunch of shit.
No it isnt. I added a conditional probably at the beginning. The vast majority of people at 17 are clueless about what they want for their future...
Sure, but if you are talking about the vast majority you need some context...
- The vast majority of people can never consider working in any tech endeavor.
- The vast majority of people never find a career, they just have jobs (if that.)
- The vast majority of people are equally clueless at 40 as they are at 17.
