Non-IT News Thread
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@wirestyle22 said in Non-IT News Thread:
@RojoLoco said in Non-IT News Thread:
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@momurda said in Non-IT News Thread:
I lived in Orlando for a few years in my 20s. Nobody ever went swimming in the many lakes and ponds around the city, because 'gators. It is why everybody has swimming pools.
What is worse than losing your child?
Knowing you lost your child due to your own stupidity because you let a 2 year old run loose in central FL.
I guess man. I think these people paid their own price. It's not my place to judge them. I don't know the situation or who they are as parents/people. Innocent until proven guilty.
"The boy's family was at a movie night outdoors at the Grand Floridian resort when around 9 p.m. the boy waded into about a foot of water in a lagoon, authorities have said. Witnesses, including the boy's horrified parents, tried to save him. His father jumped in and tried to pry the gator's mouth open. His mother jumped in, too."
The guy tried to pry the jaws of an alligator open to save him.
That must have been a hell of a good movie to neglect a 2 year old long enough to lose him. Would you let a 2 year old wander off in Las Vegas? No, because bad shit can happen. In Florida, that bad shit includes gators.
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@RojoLoco said in Non-IT News Thread:
@wirestyle22 said in Non-IT News Thread:
@momurda said in Non-IT News Thread:
I lived in Orlando for a few years in my 20s. Nobody ever went swimming in the many lakes and ponds around the city, because 'gators. It is why everybody has swimming pools.
What is worse than losing your child?
Knowing you lost your child due to your own stupidity because you let a 2 year old run loose in central FL.
And these were Americans. Knowing that Florida is dangerous is common knowledge and common sense. If they were from, you know, Laos and had no idea that Florida was dangerous I'd give them more of a pass. But we assume that they need to have been responsible for basic US knowledge AND how to read English being from Nebraska. Maybe they were recent immigrants or something and can't read English and have no idea as to the state of the natural predators in Florida, but it seems pretty far fetched.
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I've been warned by Disney about the alligators on the same body of water where this happened. Can't say what happened in this particular case, but having been there a lot, I never found there to be a shortage of warnings. Although where he was wading used to be a popular swimming spot.
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@scottalanmiller said in Non-IT News Thread:
@RojoLoco said in Non-IT News Thread:
@wirestyle22 said in Non-IT News Thread:
@momurda said in Non-IT News Thread:
I lived in Orlando for a few years in my 20s. Nobody ever went swimming in the many lakes and ponds around the city, because 'gators. It is why everybody has swimming pools.
What is worse than losing your child?
Knowing you lost your child due to your own stupidity because you let a 2 year old run loose in central FL.
And these were Americans. Knowing that Florida is dangerous is common knowledge and common sense.
So, you're saying they'll sue.
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@tonyshowoff said in Non-IT News Thread:
@scottalanmiller said in Non-IT News Thread:
@RojoLoco said in Non-IT News Thread:
@wirestyle22 said in Non-IT News Thread:
@momurda said in Non-IT News Thread:
I lived in Orlando for a few years in my 20s. Nobody ever went swimming in the many lakes and ponds around the city, because 'gators. It is why everybody has swimming pools.
What is worse than losing your child?
Knowing you lost your child due to your own stupidity because you let a 2 year old run loose in central FL.
And these were Americans. Knowing that Florida is dangerous is common knowledge and common sense.
So, you're saying they'll sue.
I think that was implied... they are Americans after all.
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Poor Sue. She seems to get blamed for everything over there.
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For those judging...
https://www.facebook.com/jennifer.venditti.18/posts/10154371872047147
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@JaredBusch said in Non-IT News Thread:
For those judging...
It's a terrible tragedy, but hopefully the takeaway isn't that parents don't need to be responsible for common sense and just because other parents were also less than cautious does not make it completely okay. That this person uses "I did it too" as a defence is circular reasoning. It's like "if all your friends jump off of a bridge."
We can't know who is to blame. But this post sounds like someone trying to justify their own decision to allow a child into alligator risk water rather than any kind of justification for the other ones who also did. I've been near that water myself and don't go into it because of alligators. I've seen many a gator in that water and there are many signs about them (or were.)
Hard to say what the signage is there or what kinds of warnings are provided ... and it isn't like kids don't get taken by sharks in the ocean and we don't say "well parents shouldn't let their kids swim in the ocean."
The best outcome will be awareness and hopefully more parents will be conscious of allowing small children to go alone into alligator risk areas.
But if places like Africa are any example, it doesn't change parental behaviour even in places where losing children to crocs is common.
What worries me most about articles like this is that they risk downplaying everyone's responsibility in the hopes of "making people feel better." I understand that there is value in helping those hurt through a time of loss. But there is a value in making people realize that we can't just leave the safety of children to someone else, too.
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https://www.facebook.com/theguardian/videos/506897629498005/
A mock video about the British EU Referendum that's being voted on tomorrow - in the style of the Monty Python "What have the Romans ever done for us" scene...also, Sir Patrick Stewart saying "Oh F*ck off".
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@NattNatt said in Non-IT News Thread:
https://www.facebook.com/theguardian/videos/506897629498005/
A mock video about the British EU Referendum that's being voted on tomorrow - in the style of the Monty Python "What have the Romans ever done for us" scene...also, Sir Patrick Stewart saying "Oh F*ck off".
I've seen that one, it is great.
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@scottalanmiller said in Non-IT News Thread:
@JaredBusch said in Non-IT News Thread:
For those judging...
It's a terrible tragedy, but hopefully the takeaway isn't that parents don't need to be responsible for common sense and just because other parents were also less than cautious does not make it completely okay. That this person uses "I did it too" as a defence is circular reasoning. It's like "if all your friends jump off of a bridge."
We can't know who is to blame. But this post sounds like someone trying to justify their own decision to allow a child into alligator risk water rather than any kind of justification for the other ones who also did. I've been near that water myself and don't go into it because of alligators. I've seen many a gator in that water and there are many signs about them (or were.)
Hard to say what the signage is there or what kinds of warnings are provided ... and it isn't like kids don't get taken by sharks in the ocean and we don't say "well parents shouldn't let their kids swim in the ocean."
The best outcome will be awareness and hopefully more parents will be conscious of allowing small children to go alone into alligator risk areas.
But if places like Africa are any example, it doesn't change parental behaviour even in places where losing children to crocs is common.
What worries me most about articles like this is that they risk downplaying everyone's responsibility in the hopes of "making people feel better." I understand that there is value in helping those hurt through a time of loss. But there is a value in making people realize that we can't just leave the safety of children to someone else, too.
I'm glad a parent said this - I would have been filleted saying that as a non parent!
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@JaredBusch said in Non-IT News Thread:
For those judging...
https://www.facebook.com/jennifer.venditti.18/posts/10154371872047147If she "can't conceive that an alligator would be in such a busy, small space", that shows her level of poor parenting and lack of knowledge of how nature works. If gators weren't on her mind while letting her kid swim in FL, she's a moron. #thinkmoreprayerwon'tkeepyourkidsafe
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I call bullshit arm chair quarterbacking on people saying things like @scottalanmiller and @RojoLoco
For anyone not raised around the danger, there is no sense of what is right or wrong or natural or not for alligators.
I would not even think about gators being active in a resort unless there were signs saying as much. In this instance, there were not.
If I was on an everglades tour or something, I would be aware of and thinking about them. I certainly never once thought about alligators in 2006 when I was with my sister's family at WDW. We were not at a resort with a beach lake like that, but there was a lake and we walked around it.
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@JaredBusch said in Non-IT News Thread:
I call bullshit arm chair quarterbacking on people saying things like @scottalanmiller and @RojoLoco
For anyone not raised around the danger, there is no sense of what is right or wrong or natural or not for alligators.
I was raised in the north, never in the south. Yet having been to Disney World, gators are very much warned about. I only know that they are such a risk there because Disney makes such a big deal about it.
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@JaredBusch said in Non-IT News Thread:
If I was on an everglades tour or something, I would be aware of and thinking about them. I certainly never once thought about alligators in 2006 when I was with my sister's family at WDW. We were not at a resort with a beach lake like that, but there was a lake and we walked around it.
Man made lakes are a bit different. Still a risk but a very low one. The Seven Seas Lagoon is a mostly natural "lake", it's a lagoon attached to the larger Bay Lake, that is full of gators. So many that they have special walkways in certain areas for safety because the gators are at the shore so often. That body of water is in a swamp area that is not that different from a developed part of the Everglades as far as habitat.
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It's not unlike the thread of bear in the north. If you are in NY you should be aware that sending kids into the woods could result in them running into a bear. The risks are about 2% that of gators in Orlando and are high enough that you need to be aware. That doesn't mean that no one, even locals, doesn't send their kids out to play in the woods.... but there is a certain responsibility for being aware of the risk and properly educating kids on what to do as much as possible (run like heck and keep away from cubs at all cost).
You can't protect kids from everything and there have to be risks. There is no getting around it. Everything, even sleeping, carries some level of risk and bad things can still happen. There is no way to take a poll now to see how many of us, for example, would have said that we were aware of gator risks in that spot and how we knew and would we allow a kid of what age to play in the water and what time of day now that the crowds and the guards are no longer there (it's a non-swimming area for other health related reasons.) But I know for sure that being from NY, I'm extremely aware of gators in that specific body of water and have been going back to the late 1980s when Disney first warned me about it when staying in one of the hotels there.
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I'm not a parent yet but I know that anything can happen. It's pretty clear to me that this family loved their child and the loss of him has devastated them as it would any parent. It's a tragedy. Unfortunately everyone seems to use terrible news to judge others and explain how they would have reacted to it. It's all well and good what you think you would have done, but the reality is none of us have been in this position. The father tried to do everything that he could. He attempted to pry the jaws of the alligator open himself. He did a heroic thing and failed. Since my last post about this I've read a ton of mixed reports and I can't honestly verify whether or not they were aware of alligator activity in the area. To this I say they are innocent until some legitimate piece of information comes across my desk that says they neglected their child, which I'm highly doubting they did. They need compassion right now not judgment. We didn't pay a price for what happened--they did.
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@scottalanmiller said
I was raised in the north, never in the south. Yet having been to Disney World, gators are very much warned about. I only know that they are such a risk there because Disney makes such a big deal about it.
I never heard a peep about gators when I was at WDW.
Of course we didn't stay by water.
I mean, you wouldn't expect to be in your hotel pool and a gator to pop out at you. This was part of a resort area.
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@BRRABill said in Non-IT News Thread:
@scottalanmiller said
I was raised in the north, never in the south. Yet having been to Disney World, gators are very much warned about. I only know that they are such a risk there because Disney makes such a big deal about it.
I never heard a peep about gators when I was at WDW.
Of course we didn't stay by water.
I mean, you wouldn't expect to be in your hotel pool and a gator to pop out at you. This was part of a resort area.
I was born in Louisiana and I don't blame the parents.
