The "Future": Perceived vs. Reality
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@art_of_shred said:
Sure, but we have all of that built into Word, and look at what we get. My own experience may have skewed my perception, but it seems that the average adult that I knew as a child had a better command of the English language than the adults I know today. I also remember the trees in my grandparents' yard being much bigger, so take it for what it's worth.
I had similar experience, when I was a child I remember family members being able to speak German much better than myself, but years later I realised they actually weren't very good at it at all, I just didn't speak it at the time. This is also true with languages like Hungarian where the grammar is extremely complex compared to English, children make many more mistakes than would be noticed in English.
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@scottalanmiller said:
I remember the summers being hotter and more "brownish yellow."
I remember them being brighter, and back home I also remember them being more green, I guess maybe I spent more time outside back then. Last summer I went with my sister to our old house from the very early 90s, and it was so much smaller, even though I was a teenager back then, it did seem bigger. I always knew it was crappy, but oh man is it a really tiny, crappy shanty.
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My memories of working with my mother out in the garden always seem like it was SO hot. How could the world have possibly been so hot back then?
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@scottalanmiller you also see the world through your Aspie colored glasses as well. You see the world very differently than many. I see technology as awesome. But I also see the detriment to children. They just aren't as active as our generation was. Heck I know a few that just don't have outside stuff (bikes, soccer balls etc) and just don't go outside at all. Overall this makes for a VERY unhealthy generation.
The other side of this is I am seeing too many parents take this too the extreme and not have technology in their homes.... umm yeah that is not the world we live in. Teach your child to use technology and often as a learning medium it is amazing! But also make them disconnect because Facebook gives people a VERY unrealistic view of the world
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@scottalanmiller said:
My memories of working with my mother out in the garden always seem like it was SO hot. How could the world have possibly been so hot back then?
I didn't have an air conditioner until I was 17 or so, and it was just one of those windows ones. Air conditioners are necessary in America too, because it's hotter than absolute hell, and the sun beats down on you, and for some reason Americans call these "beautiful days."
It was very humid when I was a kid, but it still was usually about 25C/77F even in July, though sometimes there were days it got much hotter. Some years back there was a record temperature of something like 44C/112F, which is normal for a lot of parts of America, or at least might as well be.
If I ever made a list of things I hate about America, the top 5 would all be "it's too hot."
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@tonyshowoff said:
If I ever made a list of things I hate about America, the top 5 would all be "it's too hot."
No kidding. I live in the hottest region of Spain, on the edge of a desert and everyone here complains about how hot it is. Are you kidding? No one here has or needs air conditioning. It's just not that hot. Even NY is crazy hot compared to this.
I was in Morocco over the weekend. Almost nowhere in Morocco (where there are cities, at least) is as hot as almost anywhere in the US.
The US is just amazingly hot.
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@scottalanmiller said:
@tonyshowoff said:
If I ever made a list of things I hate about America, the top 5 would all be "it's too hot."
No kidding. I live in the hottest region of Spain, on the edge of a desert and everyone here complains about how hot it is. Are you kidding? No one here has or needs air conditioning. It's just not that hot. Even NY is crazy hot compared to this.
I was in Morocco over the weekend. Almost nowhere in Morocco (where there are cities, at least) is as hot as almost anywhere in the US.
The US is just amazingly hot.
I used to say "how did European American settlers deal with this heat?" and people say "they didn't know any better." I'm pretty sure they knew what winter was and that Europe wasn't as unbearably hot. Also if people never knew any better, why'd people ever put air conditioners in their homes? I can't imagine someone in the US in the 60s or 70s when told about central heating and air said "I had no idea I was sweating bullets constantly in my own home/office" or "I never knew being colder was possible, as you see America is on the equator and I've never opened my fridge or been around in winter time or sat under a tree in the shade."
So I don't say that any more, since the answer seems to be "they were crazy or stupid," which would explain why their descendants think nobody else noticed how hot it was and/or that it was sometimes colder.
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At the time of early settlers, the Americas were much, much colder. This is often discussed in the "Valley Forge Question." Valley Forge in the history books is this brutally cold place where soldiers were freezing to death right and left. But Valley Forge is in balmy Philadelphia and is a luxury location that barely sees snow and never gets super cold.
It's because the Americas were very cold during that time period. The average temps are way, way higher today.
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@tonyshowoff said:
So I don't say that any more, since the answer seems to be "they were crazy or stupid,"
The real question is why would anyone leave wonderful Europe for unsettled America full of horrible weather and all kinds of dangers? It made zero sense. Which is most early settlers were cultists and megalomaniacs.
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@scottalanmiller said:
@tonyshowoff said:
So I don't say that any more, since the answer seems to be "they were crazy or stupid,"
The real question is why would anyone leave wonderful Europe for unsettled America full of horrible weather and all kinds of dangers? It made zero sense. Which is most early settlers were cultists and megalomaniacs.
Well, Europe was overpopulated, had polluted and undrinkable water, and at least in the case of the English settlers, London (among other English towns) was seen as a modern day Sodom. Plus it's easier to be a religious fanatic and do things like banning laughing or smiling on Sundays if you're in the colonies and not in England. Though puritanicals also ruined England too, so it really makes no difference, it's the primary reason that English and American culture (which are nearly identical) is so bland and boring (banning any interesting artistic interest, festival or holiday (even Christmas for about 300 years was banned), or group for years, and art that was allowed had to be essentially monochrome), and full of bizarre repression, though England is less puritanical than America, but still vastly more puritanical than much of the rest of Europe.
I think it's why America has so many bizarre counter cultures and cults compared to much of the world, and especially the western world, because Americans themselves have almost no cultural identity other than simply being American -- not that things like hippies, Mormons, wiggers/chavs, juggalos, etc don't exist elsewhere, but they're much more rare outside the English speaking world, and less extreme.
Things like the Janet Jackson "malfunction" thing or the baby magazine with the breast feeding woman just make me laugh and disgust me at the same time. In general though, it's lead to a culture where extreme violence is OK, so long as nobody's naked or cussing, and an idea that if a child sees a breast some place or hears someone say a curse word, they'll be damaged for life, but can watch violence on TV all day. I still laugh about this woman who made a huge stink in the media about this breast feeding baby on some parenting magazine, you couldn't see a nipple or anything, and she kept making a stink about how it was damaging to her 14 year old son, because he certainly has never looked at more revealing pictures anywhere else.
That and the weather are the two things I hate about America, everything else about America I really like, especially the food, and the people are generally pretty nice, even in NYC, at least compared to many Eastern Europeans.
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@tonyshowoff said:
@scottalanmiller said:
@tonyshowoff said:
how it was damaging to her 14 year old son, because he certainly has never looked at more revealing pictures anywhere else.haha. I am sure the kid hated seeing it
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Here is Spain people complain about people having to go to the English speaking world to find work and how awful it is because the English speaking world is full of drugs and drug culture so that the people who left Spain just fine come back as heroin and coke addicts. Spain sees anyplace that speaks English as a drug den and nothing else.
When I told them that beer was served without food (in Spain ordering a beer gets you a plate of food with it) they said "no wonder Americans are all alcoholics."
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@scottalanmiller Sounds like I'd be an even fatter alcoholic in Spain
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Doesn't affect me so much as all the snacks are meat and I'm a vegetarian.
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@scottalanmiller I... but.... Spain!...... Chorizo....... all the seafood............
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@scottalanmiller Paella and cured meats and wild sheep and and and head explodes
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all the fish here is served with the heads, tails, bones, etc. It's a bit disturbing and a pain to try to eat.
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You skipped the big one.... jamon iberica!
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@scottalanmiller All the fish served at my house growing up were usually gutted & cleaned with my help in the kitchen sink so I suppose it's really what you're used to.
