Setting Expectations - Volunteer Network Administrator
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Hand them an itemized invoice for your time. Churches have plenty of money to pay you, don't let them treat you like the red headed stepchild.
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@RojoLoco said:
Hand them an itemized invoice for your time. Churches have plenty of money to pay you, don't let them treat you like the red headed stepchild.
Sounds like they have business-like expectations of you and your time. I agree with Rojo.
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@MattSpeller said:
@RojoLoco said:
Hand them an itemized invoice for your time. Churches have plenty of money to pay you, don't let them treat you like the red headed stepchild.
Sounds like they have business-like expectations of you and your time. I agree with Rojo.
Yep.... "downtime isn't acceptable" = they need to hire a pro, not bitch at a volunteer.
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As an aside, I'm sorry they treated you like that! Especially as a volunteer. If I was in your shoes they would have needed to repaint the walls after my language blistered it.
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was in this situation. not my personal church, and not exactly but there were a client who wanted a discount b/c they were a church. (for this area a mega-church) 3 geographic campuses, tons of tech at each. lifesize projection at one (pretty neat stuff) Finally had to have a "come to Jesus" with them basically letting them know the level of demand they require and the price that equates to that level.... they understood, went with the $ and have been happy ever since
as long as this isn't a mom and pop small country church....they have money, get paid, do the work, etc. etc. etc.
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@thecreativeone91 said:
I got chewed out for this outage by leadership because the secretary was unable to do some of the work they needed her to do and downtime isn't acceptable . How would you address their too high of expectation?
I'd tell them flat out...
- This isn't how adults, professionals and certainly not real Christians behave.
- That they can go eff themselves for being sub-par human beings.
- That I wouldn't attend a church run by people like that. They are hardly good church members let alone leaders. What kind of congregation would attend a church run by people you wouldn't be happy working for if they were paying you?
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@RojoLoco said:
Hand them an itemized invoice for your time. Churches have plenty of money to pay you, don't let them treat you like the red headed stepchild.
Yeah, this isn't a religious organization or this would never have happened. This is a business run by money grabbing people who use religion as a cover for being evil business people with no morals.
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@Hubtech said:
was in this situation. not my personal church, and not exactly but there were a client who wanted a discount b/c they were a church. (for this area a mega-church)
I would charge extra. Few businesses are as ruthless and unethical as churches. They have deep pockets and will screw you any chance they get. They are the last business that should get discounts.
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There was a study done that found that the worst way to hire professionals was to find them at your church because it resulted in the highest potential unethical behaviour. People who do work through church association are the most likely to be planning on ripping you off from the beginning and have the least ethical concerns with doing so.
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@scottalanmiller said:
@Hubtech said:
was in this situation. not my personal church, and not exactly but there were a client who wanted a discount b/c they were a church. (for this area a mega-church)
I would charge extra. Few businesses are as ruthless and unethical as churches. They have deep pockets and will screw you any chance they get. They are the last business that should get discounts.
When I worked in big box music retail (guitar center, et al), I was once asked "is that god's price on that?" It was a $99 microphone with zero margin. It wasn't $10k worth of PA gear, it was 1 f*cking mic. That was one of the final nails in that career coffin, because it happened all too often.
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I won't comment as I would like to... here is what I would do in your situation. Itemize the work you have done for them, hand them a "bill" and then never volunteer again for this organization.
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@RojoLoco said:
When I worked in big box music retail (guitar center, et al), I was once asked "is that god's price on that?" It was a $99 microphone with zero margin. It wasn't $10k worth of PA gear, it was 1 f*cking mic. That was one of the final nails in that career coffin, because it happened all too often.
Tell them "If God needs a mic, he gets a mic. Clearly this is you wanting a mic, you don't get a discount."
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You should never volunteer for any organization without billing them. This under values your contribution. However if you choose to give them discounts great you are a nice guy. ALWAYS charge for work you do in your professional life. You are setting yourself up for frustration and to be taken advantage of. That is human nature, has nothing to do with what type of organization.
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@RojoLoco said:
When I worked in big box music retail (guitar center, et al), I was once asked "is that god's price on that?" It was a $99 microphone with zero margin. It wasn't $10k worth of PA gear, it was 1 f*cking mic. That was one of the final nails in that career coffin, because it happened all too often.
I'm guessing it was an SM58? lol
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@Minion-Queen said:
You should never volunteer for any organization without billing them. This under values your contribution. However if you choose to give them discounts great you are a nice guy. ALWAYS charge for work you do in your professional life. You are setting yourself up for frustration and to be taken advantage of. That is human nature, has nothing to do with what type of organization.
If you feel the need to discount, do it AFTER the fact and only when the organization behaves well. In this case, you could have billed full, and then donated the money back to them when they behave well. If they fail to behave well, like this did, you can start keeping it instead of donating it back.
No organization really appreciates free help long term. For a single day or weekend, sure, that can work. But eventually they just see you as an employee. And in the case of a large organization like a church there is no "person" getting the benefit of the free work (we hope) so there is no one who appreciates it.
And since the pastors and secretary aren't likely free, it makes you look like the janitor to them since it is worth paying the trivial staff, you must be worth even less than they are.
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@scottalanmiller said:
No organization really appreciates free help long term.
I think this is the key. When you start, it's great, but a few weeks later it's status-quo and they will hate you like they do any other normal paid vendor when things go wrong.
And since the pastors and secretary aren't likely free, it makes you look like the janitor to them since it is worth paying the trivial staff, you must be worth even less than they are.
OK I can't agree with this. are you saying by human nature if we see someone getting paid less than ourselves we see them as less of people or if not less of a person, at least less of a professional person?
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@Dashrender said:
OK I can't agree with this. are you saying by human nature if we see someone getting paid less than ourselves we see them as less of people or if not less of a person, at least less of a professional person?
Yes, especially when you do a job that gets money and someone else doesn't get paid at all. We are trained, especially in America, that in a capitalist society that scarcity is based on skill primarily and that cost is based on need and scarcity. So the more able you are, the more you make. We are trained from childhood to see the value of work measured in pay for that work. When you pay for a secretary or a pastor but don't pay for other positions, what else would they assume? Why is the IT job volunteer but not the secretary job if one isn't more important or more valuable? What do you expect them to think? Anything else goes against the culture, their training and anything that we learn from business.
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@Dashrender said:
I think this is the key. When you start, it's great, but a few weeks later it's status-quo and they will hate you like they do any other normal paid vendor when things go wrong.
Which really only makes sense if they also equate cost with value. If they didn't, they would see you as donating tons of money and being a real contributor. That they do not supports my theory that they see the position as worth less than that of the secretary.
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I'll agree if it wasn't a 'charitable organization' the culture is to see lower pay to less value, but that SHOULDN'T be the case in a charitable organization like a church. In fact quite the opposite.
Which really only makes sense if they also equate cost with value. If they didn't, they would see you as donating tons of money and being a real contributor. That they do not supports my theory that they see the position as worth less than that of the secretary.
Yeah, there becomes a real disconnect as you mention.
The best solution for this is if you do want to donate your time, do as Scott suggested earlier. Explain to them that your contribution needs to be compensated, but that it is your plan to donate all of that compensation back to the church in the same way every other parishioner of the church does, which checks in the collection plate. This will allow them to value you and you're getting a tax write-off at the same time.
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@Dashrender said:
This will allow them to value you and you're getting a tax write-off at the same time.
LOL, sort of. If you donate 100% that they give you, you are in the same boat as if they had paid you nothing. It doesn't benefit you except to be able to prove to an employer that you earn more than you bring home via tax statements. For example, a church could pay you a billion a year if they know you will donate it all back BECAUSE they lose nothing and you break even on taxes but you can show a potential employer that you earn a billion a year so they should pay you more because you are worth so much
