New Years Resolutions?
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My big one is to be more mindful and own myself and my actions. Broken down it looks like this.
- Continue to transform my body. I am at the point I won't say lose weight, as it is more than that. I am down 100lbs in the last 5 years, not it is more about gaining muscle, and lowering body fat than having a number goal.
- Meditate more and own my thoughts and mental processes. Disconnect my feelings and wants from my actions, and delay actions until I know why I am acting.
- Cut down alcohol. It has been heavier than I want, and doesn't align with my goals.
- Desire less. I have cut my possessions down by about 30-40% percent, and I want to keep going, less overhead, less stress, focus more on experiences and time spent with my daughter and less about buying and maintaining things.
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@s.hackleman said in New Years Resolutions?:
- Cut down alcohol. It has been heavier than I want, and doesn't align with my goals.
I'd switch my goals then
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@scottalanmiller I have to drink year round to get my tolerance up enough that I don't have to be carried home after trying to keep up with you.
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@s.hackleman said in New Years Resolutions?:
@scottalanmiller I have to drink year round to get my tolerance up enough that I don't have to be carried home after trying to keep up with you.
I just don't even try.
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@s.hackleman said in New Years Resolutions?:
@scottalanmiller I have to drink year round to get my tolerance up enough that I don't have to be carried home after trying to keep up with you.
My roommate, who drinks daily, went out with me the other day. I wasn't even buzzed and she crashed onto the sidewalk and passed out. She couldn't even remember having gone out the next day!
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@scottalanmiller said in New Years Resolutions?:
@s.hackleman said in New Years Resolutions?:
@scottalanmiller I have to drink year round to get my tolerance up enough that I don't have to be carried home after trying to keep up with you.
My roommate, who drinks daily, went out with me the other day. I wasn't even buzzed and she crashed onto the sidewalk and passed out. She couldn't even remember having gone out the next day!
It has been a few years since we have had a chance, but @Slava had to carry me home last time. I was about 1 drink to 1.5 for you. I consider that a victory.
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@s.hackleman said in New Years Resolutions?:
last 5 years, not it is more about gaining muscle, and lowering body fat than having a number goal.
@scottalanmiller See the post above? I hit the quote, and this is all I got - it's been doing this for weeks, Yeah I should have reported it earlier... but here you go.
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@s.hackleman said in New Years Resolutions?:
- Desire less. I have cut my possessions down by about 30-40% percent, and I want to keep going, less overhead, less stress, focus more on experiences and time spent with my daughter and less about buying and maintaining things.
I love this one. While I don't think I really want to cull my desire, I've just exercised more self control and purchased less.
I really do need to start the process of getting rid of my possessions, and then not buying more.
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@scottalanmiller said in New Years Resolutions?:
@s.hackleman said in New Years Resolutions?:
@scottalanmiller I have to drink year round to get my tolerance up enough that I don't have to be carried home after trying to keep up with you.
My roommate, who drinks daily, went out with me the other day. I wasn't even buzzed and she crashed onto the sidewalk and passed out. She couldn't even remember having gone out the next day!
I can't keep up, sure, but I felt I did fine at mangocon against Scott.
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@Dashrender said in New Years Resolutions?:
@s.hackleman said in New Years Resolutions?:
- Desire less. I have cut my possessions down by about 30-40% percent, and I want to keep going, less overhead, less stress, focus more on experiences and time spent with my daughter and less about buying and maintaining things.
I love this one. While I don't think I really want to cull my desire, I've just exercised more self control and purchased less.
I really do need to start the process of getting rid of my possessions, and then not buying more.
Same here, last two years we've been eliminating "stuff" as much as possible. Doing a huge round of eliminations today, in fact. We are attempting to make ourselves able to completely live out of suitcases. If it can't be packed, we can't own it.
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@Dashrender said in New Years Resolutions?:
@s.hackleman said in New Years Resolutions?:
- Desire less. I have cut my possessions down by about 30-40% percent, and I want to keep going, less overhead, less stress, focus more on experiences and time spent with my daughter and less about buying and maintaining things.
I love this one. While I don't think I really want to cull my desire, I've just exercised more self control and purchased less.
I really do need to start the process of getting rid of my possessions, and then not buying more.
Check out the Minimalist I have slowly moved towards the idea of my version of minimalism and I am much happier.
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@Dashrender said in New Years Resolutions?:
@s.hackleman said in New Years Resolutions?:
last 5 years, not it is more about gaining muscle, and lowering body fat than having a number goal.
@scottalanmiller See the post above? I hit the quote, and this is all I got - it's been doing this for weeks, Yeah I should have reported it earlier... but here you go.
Did you have any of my post highlighted when you hit quote?
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@scottalanmiller said in New Years Resolutions?:
@Dashrender said in New Years Resolutions?:
@s.hackleman said in New Years Resolutions?:
- Desire less. I have cut my possessions down by about 30-40% percent, and I want to keep going, less overhead, less stress, focus more on experiences and time spent with my daughter and less about buying and maintaining things.
I love this one. While I don't think I really want to cull my desire, I've just exercised more self control and purchased less.
I really do need to start the process of getting rid of my possessions, and then not buying more.
Same here, last two years we've been eliminating "stuff" as much as possible. Doing a huge round of eliminations today, in fact. We are attempting to make ourselves able to completely live out of suitcases. If it can't be packed, we can't own it.
Yeah I've considered that approach, but that might be to extreme for me.
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@s.hackleman said in New Years Resolutions?:
@Dashrender said in New Years Resolutions?:
@s.hackleman said in New Years Resolutions?:
last 5 years, not it is more about gaining muscle, and lowering body fat than having a number goal.
@scottalanmiller See the post above? I hit the quote, and this is all I got - it's been doing this for weeks, Yeah I should have reported it earlier... but here you go.
Did you have any of my post highlighted when you hit quote?
nope, I just click quote.
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@Dashrender said in New Years Resolutions?:
@scottalanmiller said in New Years Resolutions?:
@Dashrender said in New Years Resolutions?:
@s.hackleman said in New Years Resolutions?:
- Desire less. I have cut my possessions down by about 30-40% percent, and I want to keep going, less overhead, less stress, focus more on experiences and time spent with my daughter and less about buying and maintaining things.
I love this one. While I don't think I really want to cull my desire, I've just exercised more self control and purchased less.
I really do need to start the process of getting rid of my possessions, and then not buying more.
Same here, last two years we've been eliminating "stuff" as much as possible. Doing a huge round of eliminations today, in fact. We are attempting to make ourselves able to completely live out of suitcases. If it can't be packed, we can't own it.
Yeah I've considered that approach, but that might be to extreme for me.
Have you considered a packing party. I have wanted too, but the wife and kid are not on board. Basically you pack 100% of everything you own into you garage in boxes. Then you live for 6 months by only bringing the things you honesly need back into the home. After 6 months, you have a garage sale, then haul the rest to a donation location.
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@s.hackleman said in New Years Resolutions?:
@Dashrender said in New Years Resolutions?:
@s.hackleman said in New Years Resolutions?:
- Desire less. I have cut my possessions down by about 30-40% percent, and I want to keep going, less overhead, less stress, focus more on experiences and time spent with my daughter and less about buying and maintaining things.
I love this one. While I don't think I really want to cull my desire, I've just exercised more self control and purchased less.
I really do need to start the process of getting rid of my possessions, and then not buying more.
Check out the Minimalist I have slowly moved towards the idea of my version of minimalism and I am much happier.
A little extreme for me too. I like to be prepared but purposefully. I don't need everything and the kitchen sink. I just need what I have to at least get me homebase so that I can get more supplies, be secure, and live somewhat comfortably.
I haven't so much spent less but more have directed my wants to learning more and securing myself. Whether it is over the Internet, financially, or in case of natural disasters.
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@s.hackleman said in New Years Resolutions?:
@Dashrender said in New Years Resolutions?:
@scottalanmiller said in New Years Resolutions?:
@Dashrender said in New Years Resolutions?:
@s.hackleman said in New Years Resolutions?:
- Desire less. I have cut my possessions down by about 30-40% percent, and I want to keep going, less overhead, less stress, focus more on experiences and time spent with my daughter and less about buying and maintaining things.
I love this one. While I don't think I really want to cull my desire, I've just exercised more self control and purchased less.
I really do need to start the process of getting rid of my possessions, and then not buying more.
Same here, last two years we've been eliminating "stuff" as much as possible. Doing a huge round of eliminations today, in fact. We are attempting to make ourselves able to completely live out of suitcases. If it can't be packed, we can't own it.
Yeah I've considered that approach, but that might be to extreme for me.
Have you considered a packing party. I have wanted too, but the wife and kid are not on board. Basically you pack 100% of everything you own into you garage in boxes. Then you live for 6 months by only bringing the things you honesly need back into the home. After 6 months, you have a garage sale, then haul the rest to a donation location.
I do that EVERY six months. I literally live out of suitcases.
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@NerdyDad said in New Years Resolutions?:
@s.hackleman said in New Years Resolutions?:
@Dashrender said in New Years Resolutions?:
@s.hackleman said in New Years Resolutions?:
- Desire less. I have cut my possessions down by about 30-40% percent, and I want to keep going, less overhead, less stress, focus more on experiences and time spent with my daughter and less about buying and maintaining things.
I love this one. While I don't think I really want to cull my desire, I've just exercised more self control and purchased less.
I really do need to start the process of getting rid of my possessions, and then not buying more.
Check out the Minimalist I have slowly moved towards the idea of my version of minimalism and I am much happier.
A little extreme for me too. I like to be prepared but purposefully. I don't need everything and the kitchen sink. I just need what I have to at least get me homebase so that I can get more supplies, be secure, and live somewhat comfortably.
I haven't so much spent less but more have directed my wants to learning more and securing myself. Whether it is over the Internet, financially, or in case of natural disasters.
Only things that we try to keep beyond the "luggage limits" are...
- Nostalgic items that we keep in storage
- Toys for the kids that go through a rotation
- Homeschool material for the kids, also in a travel rotation
- Warm weather / cold weather clothing. We only live with one set at a time, normally. Since we move between cold European and hot Central American worlds, we need two whole wardrobe sets.
- Office setup in our more stable locations. Having a computer monitor is great when there is a chance to have one. That's one thing I covet when traveling light.
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@NerdyDad said in New Years Resolutions?:
@s.hackleman said in New Years Resolutions?:
@Dashrender said in New Years Resolutions?:
@s.hackleman said in New Years Resolutions?:
- Desire less. I have cut my possessions down by about 30-40% percent, and I want to keep going, less overhead, less stress, focus more on experiences and time spent with my daughter and less about buying and maintaining things.
I love this one. While I don't think I really want to cull my desire, I've just exercised more self control and purchased less.
I really do need to start the process of getting rid of my possessions, and then not buying more.
Check out the Minimalist I have slowly moved towards the idea of my version of minimalism and I am much happier.
A little extreme for me too. I like to be prepared but purposefully. I don't need everything and the kitchen sink. I just need what I have to at least get me homebase so that I can get more supplies, be secure, and live somewhat comfortably.
I haven't so much spent less but more have directed my wants to learning more and securing myself. Whether it is over the Internet, financially, or in case of natural disasters.
For me, living though a natural disasters (Joplin, Mo Tornado close to a direct hit) that changed me. I realized that my whole home could be blown away, and I wouldn't care. Honestly it would have been less paperwork. So for me, I maintain 1 bug out bag that my family can live on for 72 hours, a change of clothes, and shelter. It adds value for me, so I keep it. It dual purposes because I enjoy backpacking so most of the gear is interchangeable. If it is more than 1 bag that I can grab and run with, it is excess.
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@s.hackleman said in New Years Resolutions?:
@Dashrender said in New Years Resolutions?:
@scottalanmiller said in New Years Resolutions?:
@Dashrender said in New Years Resolutions?:
@s.hackleman said in New Years Resolutions?:
- Desire less. I have cut my possessions down by about 30-40% percent, and I want to keep going, less overhead, less stress, focus more on experiences and time spent with my daughter and less about buying and maintaining things.
I love this one. While I don't think I really want to cull my desire, I've just exercised more self control and purchased less.
I really do need to start the process of getting rid of my possessions, and then not buying more.
Same here, last two years we've been eliminating "stuff" as much as possible. Doing a huge round of eliminations today, in fact. We are attempting to make ourselves able to completely live out of suitcases. If it can't be packed, we can't own it.
Yeah I've considered that approach, but that might be to extreme for me.
Have you considered a packing party. I have wanted too, but the wife and kid are not on board. Basically you pack 100% of everything you own into you garage in boxes. Then you live for 6 months by only bringing the things you honesly need back into the home. After 6 months, you have a garage sale, then haul the rest to a donation location.
LOL - I'm a very avid collector of Star Wars and other SciFi things. I know, for example, I could pack up my entire basement and i wouldn't look at it for years. But there is value there, I would never recover in a garage sale. It's really more a matter of just chipping away at it, between local for sale groups and ebay I could move a good amount of it.
