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    • scottalanmillerS
      scottalanmiller @thanksajdotcom
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      @ajstringham said:

      That list is spot on! Describes me pretty well too!

      No 3. When new friends think you’re “too clingy” because you’re initiating all of the hangouts.

      That is so me!

      I've learned not to do that but it is a constraining force that keeps me from doing it, not my natural state. It's the best thing when you make new friends and they are like "hey, can we hang out tomorrow and let's schedule a trip next weekend!!"

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      • thanksajdotcomT
        thanksajdotcom @scottalanmiller
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        @scottalanmiller said:

        @ajstringham said:

        That list is spot on! Describes me pretty well too!

        No 3. When new friends think you’re “too clingy” because you’re initiating all of the hangouts.

        That is so me!

        I've learned not to do that but it is a constraining force that keeps me from doing it, not my natural state. It's the best thing when you make new friends and they are like "hey, can we hang out tomorrow and let's schedule a trip next weekend!!"

        OMG YES! I think I often stunt potential relationships because when I first meet someone and hit it off, I want to talk and hang out..all the time. I think I scare girls off doing that.

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        • thanksajdotcomT
          thanksajdotcom
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          No. 7: People thinking you’re “needy” when you’re just trying to recharge by connecting with someone.

          This is by far the biggest thing I struggle with. See my previous post.

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          • NicN
            Nic
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            That explains why you were so distraught at being trapped alone in a parking garage 🙂

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            • Reid CooperR
              Reid Cooper @Nic
              last edited by

              @Nic said:

              That explains why you were so distraught at being trapped alone in a parking garage 🙂

              Bazing!

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              • scottalanmillerS
                scottalanmiller @Nic
                last edited by

                @Nic said:

                That explains why you were so distraught at being trapped alone in a parking garage 🙂

                It's funny because it's true 😞

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                • thanksajdotcomT
                  thanksajdotcom @Reid Cooper
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                  @Reid-Cooper said:

                  @Nic said:

                  That explains why you were so distraught at being trapped alone in a parking garage 🙂

                  Bazinga!

                  FTFY

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                  • DominicaD
                    Dominica
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                    Haven't read the list yet, but that is definitely partly why Scott was so panicked, and partly how he ended up in the garage in the first place - he met a new friend and followed her in to help her! Doesn't matter that she was a stranger he doesn't even remember now, he was alone, and then someone talked to him! Yay! A friend! Extroverts are so WEIRD!

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                    • thanksajdotcomT
                      thanksajdotcom @Dominica
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                      @Dominica said:

                      Haven't read the list yet, but that is definitely partly why Scott was so panicked, and partly how he ended up in the garage in the first place - he met a new friend and followed her in to help her! Doesn't matter that she was a stranger he doesn't even remember now, he was alone, and then someone talked to him! Yay! A friend! Extroverts are so WEIRD!

                      We are. Lol

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                      • coliverC
                        coliver
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                        People actually do any of those things on that list? Man Extroverts are a strange group of people...

                        Lost in a parking garage? Apparently I'm hanging out with the wrong people at Spiceworld.

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                        • thanksajdotcomT
                          thanksajdotcom @coliver
                          last edited by

                          @coliver said:

                          People actually do any of those things on that list? Man Extroverts are a strange group of people...

                          Lost in a parking garage? Apparently I'm hanging out with the wrong people at Spiceworld.

                          That list is surprisingly accurate, despite their attempts at exaggeration.

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                          • Minion QueenM
                            Minion Queen
                            last edited by

                            We NEED people to talk to... Or something terrible might happen.

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                            • DominicaD
                              Dominica @coliver
                              last edited by

                              @coliver said:

                              Lost in a parking garage? Apparently I'm hanging out with the wrong people at Spiceworld.

                              Well, duh. If you're not hanging out with us, you're definitely hanging with the wrong people!

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                              • Minion QueenM
                                Minion Queen
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                                I often am asked to sit on my hands when I am talking.

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                                • scottalanmillerS
                                  scottalanmiller @Dominica
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                                  @Dominica said:

                                  @coliver said:

                                  Lost in a parking garage? Apparently I'm hanging out with the wrong people at Spiceworld.

                                  Well, duh. If you're not hanging out with us, you're definitely hanging with the wrong people!

                                  He's hanging out with @Minion-Queen right now.

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                                  • art_of_shredA
                                    art_of_shred @Minion Queen
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                                    @Minion-Queen said:

                                    I often am asked to sit on my hands when I am talking.

                                    But it doesn't help much, or last more than a few seconds.

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                                    • scottalanmillerS
                                      scottalanmiller @coliver
                                      last edited by

                                      @coliver said:

                                      People actually do any of those things on that list? Man Extroverts are a strange group of people...

                                      Lost in a parking garage? Apparently I'm hanging out with the wrong people at Spiceworld.

                                      Yes, that is actually what we are like! At least the extreme ones like me. That list is amazingly accurate.

                                      You totally missed the party at SW. You were there? Did I see you and black out?

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                                      • DominicaD
                                        Dominica @Minion Queen
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                                        @Minion-Queen said:

                                        I often am asked to sit on my hands when I am talking.

                                        Honey, that has nothing to do with being an extrovert, and everything to do with being Italian.

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                                        • Minion QueenM
                                          Minion Queen
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                                          But I have a hard time keeping a train of thought when I can't use my hands!

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                                          • art_of_shredA
                                            art_of_shred @Minion Queen
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                                            @Minion-Queen said:

                                            But I have a hard time keeping a train of thought when I can't use my hands!

                                            I thought you were busy right now. Why are you posting?!?

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